Why Women Are Crazy

Hello, world!
The following was written on 10/15/17 after yet certain life experience and observation. I never published it. Of course, every word written is in general. Maybe it's insensitive.  If you are offended, then there is truth here.  Inspired by others' frankness I've heard over the last few days, I decided to make this public. Maybe you'll enjoy it.

Women are beautiful. If you take your time and look carefully at a woman, she is simply beautiful… Her strength, intelligence, capability, perseverance, elegance can be fascinating to watch.

A woman feels unsafe. Almost always. We have created a world where a woman cannot walk down a street without internally carrying a fear that at any moment she can be hurt by a man. This is true everywhere, including sleepy towns.

A woman feels unsafe and not just physically. It’s also emotional.

A woman can fall in love with a man for a few reasons. Most of the time, it’s because she sees his best self. She can see through him and find his kernel, his essence, which pulls her in, which she wants to protect and nourish. It gives her pleasure to be of service.

But a man needs to earn her trust. She can love him, yes. If he has not earned her confidence, she will be afraid. She will continue to be afraid, and that fear will go on increasing. She will kick and scream. She will become angry, anxious, agitated. She will act like a bird in a cage.

The man needs to be there for her. He needs to look at her, touch her, kiss her like she’s the most beautiful thing he’s ever seen. He needs to listen to her. He needs to deliver on what he says he will do. He needs to be trusted by her.

But man is too enamored with himself. He thinks too much of his own thoughts and his projects. He doesn’t understand that no matter how many things he does, a few hours with a woman who loves him will fulfill him in ways no other outside thing can. He doesn’t know that she will be his inspiration for whatever he wants to do. He doesn’t notice her all the time.  But her beauty is there, always present, just waiting to be released. It wants and needs a reason to explode.

And when that trust is there, when she feels like his intentions are to support her, when she feels like she’s actually important to him, when she sees that his effort is full of care and concern for her, when she knows he will do as he says he would, she will yield to him. Her beauty and love will grow beyond anything he or she has witnessed before, and he will be showered with the kind of energy he didn’t realize existed.

A woman is not crazy.  She is simply unsupported.